Ok everyone I need your advice...I met this guy...after only knowing him a very short time he wants me to marry him. He is military and will be leaving this state to be stationed else where. I again have only known him a very short time...about 2 months. I never let him meet the kids, I have two children, because I didn't want them confused. But now he wants me to go with him get married and then follow him around the world. I do love him, but also very afarid to committ...I don't want to make a decision that could hurt the girls in the long run...They are my main priority. I told him I would like to wait...and he says that is fine we can wait...But honestly, part of me doesn't want to be away from him at all. I know I love him and I know he loves me..I have never felt so much for someone ever, but that is the scary part....They say if it is too good to be true it prob. is....what do you think is just too short of time to propose marriage....?? Most men do not ask or even talk about marriage that quickly in a relationship...now if I was the man and him the woman i wouldnt question it. Makes me think something is wrong here since he wants to get married so soon. Am I wrong to think that??? I mean really come on.....What man talks about marriage in 2 months??? So please give me your advice on this....let me know what you are thinking!!! PLEASE!!
Brandi
Brandi





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Nice to have you here!
If this guy loves you very much I am sure he will wait forever until you are good and ready. Best wishes to both of you! 
hello Brandi..hope everything goes well with you..God Bless
